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In swinger life style, sometimes hygiene overlooked by some swingers at parties and events. There are many things we were taught during our childhood and expanded as we grew older and became sexually aware. Since in swinger life style you have sexual contact with many people at swinger parties or clubs you need to be as clean as possible.

Some useful hygiene tips that will prevent you from getting scarred or disappointed while swinging:

• Showering before a swinger party: you better be quite self conscious when attending any swinger party or swinging event and go there smelling fresh and clean.
• Using someone else’s towel: This is the biggest NO. You don't know which part of the body they have wipe with the towel or worst, (you know which) or maybe that person carries some sort of transmittable diseases? Be safe, bring, and use your own towel only. Even when swingers are usually very clean people, you don't know each swinger in the room, so every swinger couple can take their own precautions.
• Having sex in the spa? – Even when seeing lots of horny and and hot people in the spa is a real temptation, it is not really. The warm temperature os a Spa is an ideal place for bacteria and other organic organism to multiply and grow. Plus who wants to share your bodily fluids. In swinger parties you have the right to say no, if somebody won't come out and insists in you to go into the spa, a polite "no thanks" will be OK. So for hygienic purposes go to a dry place to have sex.
• Fingernails – Fingers are a great in giving pleasure in those delicate places when it comes to foreplay, but guys with long and dirty fingernails is just too much. They can cause cuts and spread all those dirty bacteria and germs in those delicate places. So trim and clean you fingers before attending swinger parties and events.

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Swinging or "the swinger lifestyle" or also known as "the lifestyle", implies lots of sexual activities for three or more people.

Swinging activities at dating clubs or swinger parties may go from watching others having sex to having sex while others are watching you or having sex with someone else's partner and letting your own partner to have sex with another couple. The first is called "soft swinging" and the second is called full swinging.

These swinger dating activities are usually planed for married or stable couple, which engages in one of the above written practices with another couple or even a single male or female. Swingers are not usually intended to be bisexual people but, bi-female swingers are welcome to parties and events.

Swinger life style activities are available at different levels that may vary from household swinger parties at any member home to organized events up to city events in permanent locations. Big clubs often try not to be easily seen since not many people supports this swingers lifestyle. Swingers can also meet through personal ads on newspapers and magazines, swinging clubs on the internet, swingers 'hotels, and several other ways.

Lifestyle is consider a whole subculture by many swingers. In swinger life style the only well known rule is "No means No" so if you get rejected, don't ask for a justification.

The majority of members in a swinger club are friendly and nice people, they are very helpful with new people since there's a first time for everything.

Having some drinks and asking questions about swinging won't mean anyone to do anything else.You need to be honest and direct about your intentions and goals and most swingers will respect it.

Swinging can be a really great experience for a couple but, why? Why consider swinging? Here is a top ten that might help you jump into the swinger dating lifestyle and then, from soft swinging to full swinging.

Swinging is called "recreational sex" but, it is, in fact, responsible non-monogamy. Lots of swinger couples and singles get together for wife swapping and group sex.

Reason to swing #1

Swingers are the kind of exciting and fun company to be with. Swingers are transparent, active, honest and very open to new friendships. Swingers really enjoy their life style all the time a swinger will always be a swinger and like it. Environment at their clubs is usually free but they really know how to have fun at parties, picnics, etc. It is a good experience to share with swingers since they are wonderful people.

Reason to swing # 2

Health. Swingers must have a healthy life style. The majority of swinger clubs and scenes discourage excessive alcohol consumption, do not allow drug use and always try to provide good exercise. To stay healthy is a good practice in lifestyle since there are events all the time. Swinging will occupy you out of your home.

Reason to swing # 3

Swinger dating life style is an environment that gives opportunity to anyone to dress daring dresses and lingerie. You can now show off those things you use to buy at sex shops or by catalog. Nobody will laugh or anything. Most swingers enjoy dressing up and being watched.

Reason to swing # 4

Fantasies. Have you ever dreamed of two women? or wanted one of your same sex? may be sharing yourself with a stranger ? some one to watch you? on watching others for a turn on? lots and lots of flesh to pick up from? If you can think of it, you'll find it in the life style. Swinging is all about fantasies.

Reason to swing # 5

Performance. A couple may be adept lovers but some things need to be seen and practiced, not just read about.

Reason to swing # 6

Being attractive is good to anyone. This is a good reason to go into swinger dating lifestyle since you'll need to stay on a diet and exercising to be "selectable" in a swinger party. Many times people stop maintaining their attractiveness when they "settle down". You don't have to look like a 10 but attractiveness is about the attitude of a "10".

Reason to swing # 7

Menu. Swingers are hungry for variety. Your partner may be delicious but why having a limit to yourself? Nice muscles, big boobs, middle and/or big penises, you want some red heads huh? no problem, you choose, there are red heads, brunettes, blondes and whatever you want, positions ??? Anyone you want, you just need to go in. It's all there in swinger life style.

Reason to swing # 8

New and good friendships. If you're lucky, you have a couple of really good friends. If you start meeting swingers you probably get several more. In swinger life style, you can meet other couples that share your interests and are willing to share to an intimate level.

Reason to swing # 9

Not only more but, better friends. It is sad that jealousy and other issues break so many friendships and couples. Swinging can bring many good things to frirnships. In the lifestyle you need no to hide anything, if you desire your best friend's wife or husband just go and take it into your bed. It is better to watch your partner and join him/her to have sex with another person that not having him/her because of it.

The top reason to consider swinging is:

Playing along with your partner. Arriving to a party, having lots of sex and non-monogamous fun and then leaving as a couple. It is what makes swinger lifestyle different from other lifestyles; couples do this together.

You don't usually see partners together but, in the sexual sharing of swinging lifestyle it is almost necessary. It's not about sharing your partner with someone else is sharing your couple with somebody else. It's about enjoying yourselves while at the same time opening to receive someone else into your fun. Sharing experiences build a solid relationship. Sharing, that's what swinging is about in the end.

Swinger life style is full of swinging and sexual activities, many of them are common at swinger parties, others are only very specific and organized events.

Bisexuality

In swinger life style bisexuality is more common between women than men but not every swinger woman would go into it. Bisexual men are not usually seen in the lifestyle and often this kind of practice will be frowned upon if not organized prior or moved to a separated area.

Couple to swinger couple

This is the essence of swinging. Usually it may start with one couple pairing the other, after swapping, probably both swinger couples will move staying close to each other, after a while they may move to threesomes or some group sex or orgies.

Extreme swinger culture

Spanking, sadomasochism, bondage, submission/domination and water sports are included in this activities.Even when uncommon amongst swingers, sometimes hosts decide these to be the theme for some swinger parties and they notify it prior to swinger party date.

Groups or Orgies

It is usually a group of four or more people in sexual interaction, in case of swinger lifestyle parties, they are two couples for most of the times but they may also be five or more swingers.

Threesomes

Threesomes are a good practice for new couples just stepping into swinger lifestyle. Many swinger couples still continue with threesomes even when they have been and are into full swinging. The level of interaction may vary during threesomes, in a male-female-male the female swinger will tend to be a little more passive most of the time but not necessarily.

Voyeurism

Voyeurism is when someone watches others having sex.This is very common in public swinging areas but not in private areas. And always remember to ask if there's no problem if you watch, just in case.